Picture This:
You speak about going on a diet, but wait there's this wonderful cake (your favorite flavor) at this party. You'll start the diet tomorrow. Then again the next day you have a work party and there are these little choclate covered pretzals... maybe tomorrow I can start. And so forth the next day becomes the next and the next and the next.
Even though this can happen in a negative fashion, it can be positive as well. The thing is... Talking about something is diffrent than putting it into action. Action requires motivation talking can just be simple chit chat or gossip. Therefore if you say 'I can't talk to you' and the talk doesn't go so well it doesn't mean that you can't do that.
Because the talk was just a little set back, the idea was the spark and the thinking was the flame. So Just because you couldn't just stop the talking when mentioning an idea, that means nothing when actually carrying through an action. An action needs the movement and will power.
So if you have the will power to avoid someone it can be done. All you need is to tell yourself that its done. That you can't do something like eat the cake. You need will power to do most anything, but what if its the most difficult thing yet? Like not speaking with a best friend? Well maybe thats what you need. To prove to yourself that You can do something, especially if it is for a good reason and you need a break.
Talk doesn't fully influence the action. Will power does.
<3 PictureThisGirl
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Please Tell Me (Acutally let's say this never happened)
Picture this:
Someone with trust issues. Someone that doesn't want to tell you the issues. Leave them alone, they figure everything out themselves. You push them to open up and then say 'Well I wish you never told me, let's just forget it.' But in nicer words.
The thing is opening up can the easiest or hardest thing to do. It all depends on the person and people differ. Some people can tell anyone their issues, but others act fine, but are hurt on the inside. Its difficult to tell the diffrence, but the truth is... No one has no issues and even though they look fine they may be crying on the inside more than anyone else.
So these people who are selective with opening up open up carefully. They'll leave little hints hoping someone will pick up on them, even though the chances are slim to none. These hints are so small that its amazing you could leave a hint in that way and expect someone to pick up on it. The thing is...these are the people with the real issues.
So if one of these people want to tell someone something, they don't know how. Even starting to tell someone something is a task. They question every word, they don't know how. Telling someone a problem could be interpreted as an instinct, but the truth is it can't be. It is all about the enviornment in which the person was raised in as a child. This person could have been raised in a family where you never open up unless its a broken bone, but never a broken heart.
Therefore, when one of these people reaches out of that self preservation comfort zone they feel uneasy, questioning, and just want to forget and because of these they keep it inside even more turning into nothing more than a person full of issues from toes up. So if a friend knew all of this, you'd think they would know that if that person opens up to show some kind of...respect, at the very least, right?
Imagination wants the world to be perfect. Truth be told, nothing can be perfect. Nothing. This is because it isn't heaven. And everything has something wrong with it. In a perfect world people wouldn't get divorces. In a perfect world there wouldn't be fights. In a perfect world there wouldn't be these kind of people or these kinds of friends.
So the person persists they open up and tell them this thing. Finally, the person does. They open up and feel like the world could come crumbling down. Yet, the listener gives them false hope saying they feel, equal? Well maybe all is fair in love in war, but not everything is fair in life. Like lies for example. Yet later in an hour they tell the person with false hope that all of this opening up and talking should be forgotten.
What? That is what you should be saying. Yes Please please conquer your fear and tell me something and let me give you false hope and also let me break you down further? Wow...good friend even better now this person has nothing.
Wow...such a perfect world?
<3 PictureThisGirl
Someone with trust issues. Someone that doesn't want to tell you the issues. Leave them alone, they figure everything out themselves. You push them to open up and then say 'Well I wish you never told me, let's just forget it.' But in nicer words.
The thing is opening up can the easiest or hardest thing to do. It all depends on the person and people differ. Some people can tell anyone their issues, but others act fine, but are hurt on the inside. Its difficult to tell the diffrence, but the truth is... No one has no issues and even though they look fine they may be crying on the inside more than anyone else.
So these people who are selective with opening up open up carefully. They'll leave little hints hoping someone will pick up on them, even though the chances are slim to none. These hints are so small that its amazing you could leave a hint in that way and expect someone to pick up on it. The thing is...these are the people with the real issues.
So if one of these people want to tell someone something, they don't know how. Even starting to tell someone something is a task. They question every word, they don't know how. Telling someone a problem could be interpreted as an instinct, but the truth is it can't be. It is all about the enviornment in which the person was raised in as a child. This person could have been raised in a family where you never open up unless its a broken bone, but never a broken heart.
Therefore, when one of these people reaches out of that self preservation comfort zone they feel uneasy, questioning, and just want to forget and because of these they keep it inside even more turning into nothing more than a person full of issues from toes up. So if a friend knew all of this, you'd think they would know that if that person opens up to show some kind of...respect, at the very least, right?
Imagination wants the world to be perfect. Truth be told, nothing can be perfect. Nothing. This is because it isn't heaven. And everything has something wrong with it. In a perfect world people wouldn't get divorces. In a perfect world there wouldn't be fights. In a perfect world there wouldn't be these kind of people or these kinds of friends.
So the person persists they open up and tell them this thing. Finally, the person does. They open up and feel like the world could come crumbling down. Yet, the listener gives them false hope saying they feel, equal? Well maybe all is fair in love in war, but not everything is fair in life. Like lies for example. Yet later in an hour they tell the person with false hope that all of this opening up and talking should be forgotten.
What? That is what you should be saying. Yes Please please conquer your fear and tell me something and let me give you false hope and also let me break you down further? Wow...good friend even better now this person has nothing.
Wow...such a perfect world?
<3 PictureThisGirl
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